Don't Love Because You're Lonely

Don't fall for potential, timing purposes, lonely purposes or hope of change to come in the future. Fall for the reality of who they truly are and what you will* become together. Loving out of loneliness will only delay the moment for you to love & be loved  unconditionally. 

You like him/her? Cool... Let time tell whether you'll still like them a few months on down the road. 

You like what you see?? Oh ok--Cool... Spend some time with that person--see if the interior really* matches the exterior (everything that glitters, ain't gold). 

Dating is perfect for getting to know a person (and it is not an audition for the 'box' as proclaimed..unless you willingly make it that easy).  Impressions only last so long & will eventually fade as people feel that they no longer have to impress you. But genuine acts/actions  last for forever. You can't be lazy & love just because you're lonely. If you do...well, you deserve to be short changed. 

"Patience is a virtue & rushing just might hurt you" 

Listen..I'm not the Female Hitch..and I'm definitely not trying to be. Matter of fact, I just lifted the restraining order off of Cupid..he jacked me up a few times lol! I hope you enjoyed this post. Just a few thoughts on the brain! 

Like. Learn. Love. 

Don't just  like for sight. 

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