The Makings of a MAN
"Live You, Love You, Leave you Lost"
Maxwell is the only guy who say Seduce, Reduce and Let ya Loose without drama with that melodramatic tone of his. Sheesh! I LOVE Him, His style is quite incredible, chic, Grown and Sexy. Seems like this Generation of Females wouldn't know how to accept a man such as him. Well, allow me to take that back, a few Ladies in particular would Love his characteristics.
Talking to a friend of mines, she spoke to me how she grew out of the "high school-like" love, Matching all the time, checking each others texts/phones/emails, constant club boppin, facebook drama, he say/she say, friends over lovers, etc..... and looked on towards characteristics that would satisfy the vision of her future. Which seems to be the following::::
*God Fearing - He Has a Moral Foundation; without it, you will be UN-equally yoked--and fall apart sooner or later. Messy and Not Pretty. The Bible even states that the MAN is the Head if the Household. If He doesn't have Sound Direction---How is it that you will ever find peace? Fortune? Happiness? Love? If HE doesn't know what it is for Himself to begin with. Ladies, be cautious of "decorated Compasses" He may be packaged well from the outside, but if he is lacking inner spiritual decatence, WAIT..SIT AND WAIT, and God will send the right Compass, that WONT lead you Wrong... =)
*Family Oriented - He Adores His Family and appreciates the priceless factors (QUALITY TIME) *If you have a kid(s), um....this is a PLUS right out the door, lol. For His Family, He PROVIDES and PROTECTS at ALL Costs. Nothing or Nobody would ever think twice to pose as a threat to his happiness--His FAMILY
*Mannerism - He is Polite, Open Doors, Slide Chairs out occasionally (if not All the time)
*Honor/Loyalty/Respect - He Respects you as he would his Mother.. (Bad Relationship w/Mom...May be a sign to depart EARLY) He is Loyal as sure as the Sun Rises and Sets. He may not be there to respond to every text/call/tweet etc. the moment after you send them. But You NEVER second guess that he is up to No Good because LOYALTY was established as served to be true. He is NOT Just a TALKER, when He gives you His Word, He follows through. ((AMEN?? AMEN))
*Humor/Hygiene/Hair - He HAS to be humorous, like OMG, especially if you're an outgoing Gal, lol. Hygiene...I mean, what Lady Doesn't LOVE a fresh smelling Man. Hair, whether it be a Fade, or Locks, he keeps it Fresh. I mean when you see this Man, you're ready to say, "I DO BABY! I DO!"
*Education/Goal Driven - He is very much Educated, and is nobodies Fool. He has a few trades, things he could possibly step away from his JOB and still make money on the side with. Goal Drive, He does have a Plan that's in actual progress.
*SUPPORTIVE/Romance - He SUPPORTS His Lady in all she does. Offers help, tips, advice, constructive criticism etc. This AND a Man who can actually put u back in your place and do it without raising his voice??....*Speechless* Ummm KEEPER?? DuH, lol.
Romantic...Flowers everyday isn't a MUST, He is Creative. He thinks of things His Lady Likes, Her Desires, Hobbies, Interests, etc. and integrates those things with a softer/sensual hint of flavor to completely sweep her off her feet.
Umph, Sounds like Somebody found the Makings of a Man. I am Happy for my Sista. And We all should look for these qualities PLUS some in our Selection in Men. I mean, that's only if you're looking for long term. If you're ok with the average male, that's fine. But I'm Not an Average Chic, period. So I expect Beyond normal, and consistency in doing so, will be the Makings of a HAPPY MAN. How? Because that LADY will do her all PLUS Some to keep you HAPPY as well. Team effort, 50/50 . No 80/20 or false promises will get you Blist. ;0.) Trust.
Hope you've enjoyed "The Makings of a Man" =*) .......
Maxwell is the only guy who say Seduce, Reduce and Let ya Loose without drama with that melodramatic tone of his. Sheesh! I LOVE Him, His style is quite incredible, chic, Grown and Sexy. Seems like this Generation of Females wouldn't know how to accept a man such as him. Well, allow me to take that back, a few Ladies in particular would Love his characteristics.
Talking to a friend of mines, she spoke to me how she grew out of the "high school-like" love, Matching all the time, checking each others texts/phones/emails, constant club boppin, facebook drama, he say/she say, friends over lovers, etc..... and looked on towards characteristics that would satisfy the vision of her future. Which seems to be the following::::
*God Fearing - He Has a Moral Foundation; without it, you will be UN-equally yoked--and fall apart sooner or later. Messy and Not Pretty. The Bible even states that the MAN is the Head if the Household. If He doesn't have Sound Direction---How is it that you will ever find peace? Fortune? Happiness? Love? If HE doesn't know what it is for Himself to begin with. Ladies, be cautious of "decorated Compasses" He may be packaged well from the outside, but if he is lacking inner spiritual decatence, WAIT..SIT AND WAIT, and God will send the right Compass, that WONT lead you Wrong... =)
*Family Oriented - He Adores His Family and appreciates the priceless factors (QUALITY TIME) *If you have a kid(s), um....this is a PLUS right out the door, lol. For His Family, He PROVIDES and PROTECTS at ALL Costs. Nothing or Nobody would ever think twice to pose as a threat to his happiness--His FAMILY
*Mannerism - He is Polite, Open Doors, Slide Chairs out occasionally (if not All the time)
*Honor/Loyalty/Respect - He Respects you as he would his Mother.. (Bad Relationship w/Mom...May be a sign to depart EARLY) He is Loyal as sure as the Sun Rises and Sets. He may not be there to respond to every text/call/tweet etc. the moment after you send them. But You NEVER second guess that he is up to No Good because LOYALTY was established as served to be true. He is NOT Just a TALKER, when He gives you His Word, He follows through. ((AMEN?? AMEN))
*Humor/Hygiene/Hair - He HAS to be humorous, like OMG, especially if you're an outgoing Gal, lol. Hygiene...I mean, what Lady Doesn't LOVE a fresh smelling Man. Hair, whether it be a Fade, or Locks, he keeps it Fresh. I mean when you see this Man, you're ready to say, "I DO BABY! I DO!"
*Education/Goal Driven - He is very much Educated, and is nobodies Fool. He has a few trades, things he could possibly step away from his JOB and still make money on the side with. Goal Drive, He does have a Plan that's in actual progress.
*SUPPORTIVE/Romance - He SUPPORTS His Lady in all she does. Offers help, tips, advice, constructive criticism etc. This AND a Man who can actually put u back in your place and do it without raising his voice??....*Speechless* Ummm KEEPER?? DuH, lol.
Romantic...Flowers everyday isn't a MUST, He is Creative. He thinks of things His Lady Likes, Her Desires, Hobbies, Interests, etc. and integrates those things with a softer/sensual hint of flavor to completely sweep her off her feet.
Umph, Sounds like Somebody found the Makings of a Man. I am Happy for my Sista. And We all should look for these qualities PLUS some in our Selection in Men. I mean, that's only if you're looking for long term. If you're ok with the average male, that's fine. But I'm Not an Average Chic, period. So I expect Beyond normal, and consistency in doing so, will be the Makings of a HAPPY MAN. How? Because that LADY will do her all PLUS Some to keep you HAPPY as well. Team effort, 50/50 . No 80/20 or false promises will get you Blist. ;0.) Trust.
Hope you've enjoyed "The Makings of a Man" =*) .......
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